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"i look like a koala, you shit" can i have that on a t-shirt?
I think that if they make abortion illegal, they should make men deserting women who they got pregnant illegal as well. Because if a women can’t back out of a pregnancy a man shouldn’t be able to either.
One of my issues with the pro-birth movement is that there really isn’t much they do that’s for the good of the baby, like they claim. This is one move that would make me start to believe it - even if it’s not forcing him to marry her or something, at least requiring he pay child support until the child is 18 or the current partner of the mother legally adopts the child. I wouldn’t necessarily jump onto their bandwagon from this alone, but it would be a step in the right direction to the common sense and compassion they claim to have. Yes, there are individuals within the movement who truly, honestly believe that this is about mass baby murder (in fact most of them probably believe this on some level) but the focus is too heavy on making abortion illegal (which will only make women turn to coat hangers, back alley abortions, or other dangerous methods of ending a pregnancy - congratulations, you’ve learned nothing from Prohibition, pro-birth movement).
Other things the movement doesn’t do that, if it was really about the baby, they’d be doing:
1. Funding research into the prevention of miscarriages (and, at a stretch, why not every zygote implants into the wall of the uterus)
2. Funding better prenatal care for the mother and research into complications that could hurt mom or baby during a pregnancy
3. Funding things like early childhood education, public schools, playgrounds, daycare, and other programs that would be useful to the child
4. Providing programs that would help mother raise the baby, including things like job training, childcare classes, some form of low-cost daycare, and a chance for her to finish her education - high school or college - so she can use that diploma or degree to get a better job to support that child
5. Make adoption AFFORDABLE - it ain’t exactly cheap, and this isn’t even taking into considering the costs of raising a child (since, you know, kids need food, clothes, doctor visits, toys, etc.) - this is just the cost of the adoption itself. Would you like to explain to little Timmy and little Susie that while there are lots of parents who would love to adopt them, none of them can afford to pay as much as $40,000 OR MORE to take them home? This isn’t the case for all adoptions (foster kids, for example, might be free to adopt) but still >_> (source: Adoption.Com)
6. Yes, not having sex will prevent pregnancies, but birth control does a really good job at it, too. If conception doesn’t take place, there’s no need for an abortion. I view abortion like I view fire extinguishers - it’s nice to know that, if I need it, it’s there, but I should take other steps so I don’t need to use it, such as not leaving lit candles unattended or what have you.
But these are things that the pro-birth movement doesn’t seem to be doing. Their entire focus seems to be on just preventing women from getting abortions and birth control. That isn’t helping the baby, ladies and gentlemen. That’s really not helping ANYONE.
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As long as women’s natural body hair is called disgusting and inappropriate while men’s isn’t, I am a feminist.
As long as I can’t watch an episode of a popular sitcom without having to sit through multiple sexist comments or “jokes”, I am a feminist.
As long as women have to face the rational fear of being sexually assaulted every time they walk home past dark while men don’t, I am a feminist.
As long as misogyny exists in any country in this world, I am a feminist.
As long as women are being raped, then stoned to death or forced to marry their rapist, I am a feminist.
As long as companies promote men to manager when there are women who are equally as or better qualified, because they find that men look more authoritative, I am a feminist.
As long as women (her choice of clothes, her friendly nature, her weakness, her choice to drink alcohol) get blamed when men rape them, I am a feminist.
As long women’s opinions on online social networks are dismissed with phrases like “tits or gtfo”, “get back to the kitchen”, “are you pms’ing?”, I am a feminist.
As long as dressing like a women is degrading for men and as long as men are insulted with phrases like “you throw like a woman”, clearly implying that being like a woman is shameful, I am a feminist.
As long as both men are women are expected to work, but taking care of children and the household are still largely considered a woman’s job, I am a feminist.
As long as boys and girls are treated differently, expected to act differently, and surrounded by different toys and colours from the day they are born, I am a feminist.
As long as topless women aren’t allowed in public unless they’re on the cover of a men’s magazine, I am a feminist.
As long as women who have sex frequently are generally told they are “sluts”, “lacking self-respect” and “lacking morals” by both men and women, while men who frequently have sex are “just being men” and it’s “natural for them”, I am a feminist.
As long as there are places where women have to pay more for health insurance than men, I am a feminist.
As long as men experience situations with equal gender representation as female-dominated, and don’t consider a group discussion equal unless there are significantly more men then women participants (as has been proven), I am a feminist.
As long as there are men who think it’s their wife or girlfriend’s duty to have sex with him whenever he wants, I am a feminist.
As long as the word feminism (“the movement aimed at equal rights for women”) has a negative connotation, I am a feminist.
As long as misogynist people exist, I am a feminist.
this guy pulled out his dick in front of like 5 billion feminist protestors holy shit
Some context for the idiots claiming the women are overreacting:
This occurred at a Slut Walk. For those not familiar with it, the Slut Walk is basically a peaceful protest seeking to eliminate the rape apologism so prevalent in society. The basis is that no woman is “asking for it,” with “it” being rape. It’s not a feminist protest; it’s a human rights protest.
Many of the protesters, as you can probably imagine, have dealt with sexual harassment or rape in their own lives. Many of them have structured their daily activities to avoid being raped. The gathering is supposed to be a place for them to feel empowered and able to recover in the company of those who understand what they’ve been through or who will not blame them.
Nobody at a Slut Walk will tell a survivor that it’s her fault. They will not ask what she was wearing to provoke her attacker. Nobody will say she had too much to drink. Nobody will tell the men in the group that they are inherently rapists themselves, and nobody will tell a male survivor that his experience “wasn’t really rape.”
Then, this fellow comes along. He sees this gathering of survivors and their supporters, and to him, it’s a joke. He sees feminazis. He sees girls who are taking “a bit of fun” too seriously. And what does he do? He exposes himself to this group of survivors and supporters - some of whom are, in fact, underage.
He sexually harasses literally hundreds of women in one act. Aside from public indecency, there was cruel intent in his actions. He wanted to make them uncomfortable. He wanted to “put them in their place.” Other photos from this event show him flipping the protesters off and laughing at their anger.
And there are still people defending his actions. There are those who still feel like these women were asking for itand that they deserved to be harassed for trying to claim they weren’t. There are those who feel that women should be taught a lesson this way, and they applaud this man’s actions.
So no, he didn’t pull out his dick in front of feminist protesters. He harassed dozens - if not hundreds - of rape survivors. The reaction to his actions alone outline the purpose of the Slut Walk.
For those of you still doubting whether what he did was wrong (and I do wonder if there’s something wrong with you, if you have doubts), let me give you an analogous situation. Imagine a gathering of black civil rights activists. Imagine Martin Luther King Jr., Malcolm X, Rosa Parks, and all their colleagues gathered together to demonstrate that being black did not make them lesser people. That being black and living in the South did not mean they were “asking” to be the target of hate crimes.
And at this gathering, a white man decides he should teach them a lesson by pointedly hanging a noose from the nearest tree and laughing at their anger. And other white men, laughing along with him, commend him for taking these activists down a peg.
That’s what happened here. It’s not an “OMG, I can’t believe he did that!” moment. It’s an “OMG, there are people who think this is okay” moment. And the fact is, it’s not. It never will be. And that’s the take home message of this ridiculous rant I’ve written you.
So, Magic Mike has been crazy sold out out our theater. Soccer moms, girls on the town, helicopter moms, grandmas, little old ladies, sisters, cougars, housewives, daughters, tweens dragging (sometimes reluctant) moms, birthday girls, girlfrens and guuuurlfriends have been going to see this since…
From my seat on teh Interwebs, I’ve been hearing that Natasha is both a major stride forward for women in film and yet at the same time some sort of failure of feminism, because she has no powers and gets scared and runs errands. Or something. (You can guess where I fall in this spectrum.)